The person who keeps silent and does not say these two things is exceptionally intelligent

 In life, not everything we should share with people around us, especially these two things.

Suffering is rarely mentioned, happiness is rarely bragged. Cultivating piety, perfecting yourself, living in silence and peace is the true way of life.

In this world, everyone has their own life, unique views and perspectives. Empathy is just a passing word, a distant and illusory notion.

Happiness or sadness is your own business, not related to others. So, living well is important, why do you need to hope others will sympathize with you? Remember, maturity is knowing how to control your expectations. The greater the hope, the deeper the disappointment.

Complaining about your pain is often unnecessary.

Most of us often declare, tell and lament our difficulties and losses to others, hoping to find sympathy.

However, no matter how great your pain is, in the eyes of others, it can become meaningless. Complaining only makes you feel tired and depressed. Furthermore, if you are not careful, your pain can become a topic of discussion for others.

Most of us often declare, tell and lament our difficulties and losses to others, hoping to find sympathy.

When you share your pain, will anyone come to help? It is best to overcome it yourself which is the wisest solution. In this life, no one is strong enough to sympathize with all your pain. Even though you may feel the pain of death, to others, they may just feel indifferent.

Your happiness, no need to brag

Often we think that we should share our joys with everyone. But sometimes, we realize that the other person is not smiling. Sometimes, your happiness hurts them. Your happiness can be their sadness and loss.

Often we think that we should share our joys with everyone.

What you brag about can make others jealous. So, don't worry when someone doesn't know your happiness.

People want you to be happy, but they never expect you to be happier than them. The human mind is a scary thing.